Issue 1. I believe what I believe and I believe it is far better and more correct than the alternatives.
Rationale Factor: If I didn't, why would I believe it?
Issue 2. I think sustained affluence CAN be a legitimate gauge of how much intelligence, commitment, labor, and endurance a person has.
R-factor: It's not always true, poor people are often intelligent committed hard working stick-with-it people. Idiots sometimes inherit fortunes. But without these things, affluence is never long lived. With them we can generally rise back up from the weirdities of life. My grandfather was destroyed 3 times. He made a comfortable fortune 4 times.
Issue 3. I think my moral code follows the same pattern as issue 1.
R-Factor: If I believe something is wrong and I do it, I can change my mind and say it's not wrong or I can ask forgiveness of my God and those I offended. Seems if I really believe it's wrong, why would I change my mind just because it's hard to stop doing that thing. Inside, I just accept being defiled as the norm. Which leads me back to grace anyway eventually.
Issue 4. I like my coffee full flavored without bitterness and without grounds.
R-Factor: Cooking coffee longer doesn't make up for stale or cheaply processed beans. The fact that I know the difference between coffee types and tastes may be silly to you, but only if you've never tasted really good coffee. Bad coffee is bad coffee. That's why we say it's bad. It doesn't belong in my mouth.
Issue 5. Art is intelligent, creative and interactive. No matter what kind of craft you possess, it's art or it's not. Art speaks to the internal person.
R-Factor: The fact that you don't understand it doesn't make it bad art. The fact that someone famous or someone unknown did it, or that the public likes or dislikes it is not a deciding factor. I have 10 fingers: I have a keyboard, that doesn't make me a musician or a writer. Not having sold CDs or Books does not make me not a musician or a writer. The degree that the painting, music or story connects with the heart and mind of another person, that's what determines the artistry. After that it is yours to refine and market as you will. But the art must exist before the dollar or it's a hoax.
Issue 6. Laundry, though a personal taste, is complete when the clothes are clean, dry and folded. Life is not too short to fold underwear. Life is too short not to fold underwear.
R-Factor: If you wait 3 weeks to fold your laundry and put it away, it will take you a long time to get done. If you wait 2 weeks to wash it, it may not get clean. Otherwise what's the point? Why do it? My thinking: it provides clean, nice smelling, unwrinkled garments to wear when you need them. For that, it needs to be washed promptly, dried promptly and put away folded.
Issue 7. Whether you're a house snob or not depends on whether you will let people in.
R-Factor: Let's face it, life happens sometimes and that's generally when the "cleaning police" come to call. They enter with the announcement "I came to see you not your house" and then their eyes go crazy. The only ones who rave about how dirty their houses are are the ones whose houses aren't. The rest of us figure if you haven't seen it, we shouldn't bring it to your attention.
My least favorite catch words:
loser (you don't have proper appreciation for me or value to me),
outdated (the stuff you have hasn't kept up with the latest fad which will expire 2.4 days after you get it),
hater (you have some kind of moral and ethical stand which disregards my favorite vice)
I've decided we're all snobs about something. Some of the coolest people I know are snobs. You know, some of our subcultures use 'friend _____' as a greeting. It helps them see all men as equals and beneficial. Maybe we should use the word 'snob' instead for a time just to get the idea. "Hello, snob Woodall," "Good day, snob Donna" We could love it until it was overused and outdated. Then I would decide you were a loser and I'd be seen as a hater - again.
Today I'm just a woman with a headache trying to sell an old manual camera for less than I need so I can put a few more groceries on the table. I wish to be right, but I am not always. My house is messy far more often than it is clean; though I do clean it. Moral and ethical issues are sometimes black and white, but often composed of shades of grey. If I am catholic, it is okay to have a drink. If I am Jewish, I can have wine with my Sabbath meal. If I am Baptist, I will go to hell for drinking. It's all a matter of perspective and we believe what we were taught to believe . . . The only alternative is to ask for truth and seek the truth; not according to you - or me - but according to the will of God. Sometimes - in some instances - your truth and my truth can vary for personal reasons that are strictly refined to the will of God. Samson could not cut his hair or touch strong drink. That rule did not apply to just anyone. Therefore we each work out our salvation with fear and trembling . . .
ReplyDeleteAnd, with equal fear, I fight the mice - the dust bunnies - the reproducing pile of laundry - hormonal eruptions in the skin - Sasquatch eyebrows - thunder thighs, and sometimes (though not often) coffee grounds . . .
Someone once defined having humility as having the right perspective between God and ones fellow man. Snobbery is an elitist position, one of contempt. I didn’t see much of that in your examples.
ReplyDeleteYou can judge a fellow artist as more skilled or less skilled than you, and either be humble in that assessment, or you can be servile at one extreme or haughty on the other. With some artist’s I have known, you could also add jealous, resentful and condescending.
Truth is, we must continually judge others integrity, lest we be fools. Fortunately, true snobs are easy to spot. :~)
This wasn't really meant to be a heavy post. Sorry it came out that way. I have been cast as an incredible egotist and even somewhat of a snob, before and a silly thing happened this morning that reminded me. So I was trying to be be a little silly and maybe a tad sarcastic in the writing. After all we are told to agree with our enemy in the way!
ReplyDeletePerhaps the coffee and cleaning should have been enough.
Naw. The belief thing is funny if you read it as I intended.
ReplyDeleteLOL! OK. I'll come back to it after the coffee, exercise and pills, then.
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