I bought a couple of strings of mini lights and some tinsel icicles. I picked up a couple of bags of red and green starlight mints, some ornament hangers and a package with several small boxes of matches. We popped and threaded popcorn. My mom had taught me to make chain out of tinfoil and we added that for some sparkle. We emptied the match boxes into a sandwich bag and wrapped them in Christmas paper, tied bows on them and hung them about the tree. Then we put the starlight mints on ornament hangers and dispersed them as evenly as we could. I made a few curly ribbon bows and hung them around. It wasn't a fancy tree, but with the lights glowing and the tinsel hanging about allowing popcorn, candy, foil and little bitty presents to peek through, it brought a festive feeling to the season in our home.
As I look back, I know it was a difficult time, especially for my little trouper who was used to so much more at Christmas. But we stood with each other and loved and shared what we had. Thanks to a very kind benevolent man who would one day join us as a household of 3, she got most of her requests that year. Not all, but most.
We drove to my mom and dad's for Christmas Day. A heavy snow provided for a rosy cheeked, giggling treck to check out the sled. The drive home over hilly, frozen roads with added snow was a bit frightening for mom, but it was a must have for that sweet meager Christmas so many years ago. Somehow, looking at the child sleeping confidently in the back seat, I knew that the much we shared made the little we had insignificant.
I wonder often at the miracle of family in difficult times. We had more bad holidays than good ones in my estimation, alcohol fueled fights were not uncommon. Yet the happiest ones were those when the family had very little.
ReplyDeletethere were several lean Christmases in those years, but they were sweet. We gave out of our sparseness and were blessed in ominous ways.
ReplyDeleteYou had the most precious gift of all you love of each other now the memories are even dearer . The lean years of my child hood are very dear to me as that held a lot of love an maybe no present is a great as that or ever will be.
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